You want to talk about bedside manner and common courtesy? Here's a real good example of bedside manner and common courtesy from one of the Admins in a different thread:
"Sounds like you got what you signed up for then.
Good luck on your travels."
I don't think I came anywhere close to this bedside manner and common courtesy regardless of how YOU took it.
I have nothing else to say here about HOW you think I said what, or what you thought my intention or meaning was, so I'm dropping this conversation, I have nothing more to say here and I think my comment was fine and the point was made without the degree of reaction you had. I don't think anyone else was particularly offended by HOW I said it as you were.
So now, here we can go again, but have a good time 'cause I quit this now.
And crud can consist of dried up sweat, skin, bacteria, and not all helmets can be cleaned. You want to wear someone else's helmet, nothing personal, have a nice time.